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Have you ever dated a guy where it was almost impossible to consistently get in contact with him? There will be one week where you two speak every night for hours on end and then he doesn’t return any of your calls or text messages for the following month? Was he always canceling plans last minute? According to a 2011 mental health article featured on Livestrong.com , the emotionally unavailable are more than likely physically unavailable to the people in their lives as well.
Is he one of those wishy washy people who you are learning that you can’t rely on for anything. Are you realizing that his word means almost nothing? Does he promise to help you move or give you a lift when your car is in the shop, but when the time comes he’s nowhere to be found. Does he agree to attend functions or outings with you and then turn around and do a no-show? The emotionally unavailable sometimes find it hard to be there for others, especially in their times of need.
Granted, most men aren’t jumping at the opportunity to bare their souls to you. It’s just not how they’re wired. However, it is abnormal when he never shares what he is feeling. If after months and months of dating he’s still throwing walls up and shutting you out when it comes to his feelings and even seems to get a little irritated or uncomfortable when you choose to share yours, chances are he’s emotionally unavailable.